I love giving gifts, I love finding 'just the right thing' even if it turns out it isn't 'just the right thing' but mostly, it is, well I think so;-) I love thinking about a person and who they are, what they like and what reminds me of them. I love taking time to find something that will speak to that person and tell them just how much I love them.
So, you would think that my love language, the language that I like to be spoken to would be gifts, right?
Well, would you believe it isn't?
For me, I like words. I love when one has written me something from the heart, or jotted down a note or an sms telling me how you feel. But, it must be heartfelt, it must feel real. I love how words have the ability to make me smile, to make me feel loved, to make me feel warm and fuzzy inside. Knowing that you have thought of me and have taken the time to write something down just gets my heart all a flutter.
Saying that, I do Love gifts too. I think it must be my secondary love language;-)
Is that weird that I have one love language for others and another for myself?
Do you have two different love languages?
If so, what are they?
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I have never really thought about the Love Language thing. Maybe I should look into it.
I am an Acts of Service kind of girl. That is how I feel loved is if someone takes time to help me with something - makes me dinner, helps me makes curtains, takes the kids off my hands so I can go for a run. I guess that is a gift in and off itself .
Acts of service - love to do,them, love to get them. And I am big on physical touch too
Making time for people and them making time for me..that is what grabs me.
Ah you know me - gifts! Love giving and receiving.
But, my other language is words of affirmation. very nb in my world.
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My primary love languages are Words of Affirmation and Quality Time - I actually tied in my scores. And my secondary love language is physical touch. I love receiving gifts but it's not really a thing for me if I don't get them. I am wondering if your gifts thing could actually be an Acts of Services thing? What do you think?
Like Lynette, time, made for people and them for me, is what makes my world go round.
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